Romy Unveils ‘Love Who You Love’: A Proudly Queer Love Anthem

Celebrate authentic love with Romy’s heartfelt single, ‘Love Who You Love,’ a proud queer anthem closing her 2023 debut album.

A Love Song with Pride and Purpose

When Romy dropped her new single, Love Who You Love, it felt like a warm embrace wrapped in melody. This isn't just another track—it's a proudly queer love song that resonates deeply, both as a personal statement and a communal celebration. Romy has nurtured this song since 2020, and it now stands as the beautiful closing chapter of her 2023 debut solo album, Mid Air.

She shared the heart behind the song: “I wanted to write a song that not only celebrates and uplifts love as well as calls for change. The history of resilience and togetherness in the face of unbelievable challenges within the community is so powerful." Romy's words strike a chord: love is a force of resilience, an unbreakable bond amid adversity.

The singer goes on to reveal how queer clubbing, a vibrant space of community and acceptance, helped her feel less alone and braver. These experiences fuel her music’s soul, making Love Who You Love feel like a love letter to visibility and pride. “No one can take the love you feel away from you – it’s yours,” she insists, a line that feels like a warm, defiant hug to anyone who’s ever felt marginalized.

Visual Storytelling: The Music Video

Complementing the song’s tender message is a visually stunning video directed by Romy’s creative and life partner, Vic Lentaigne. The video beautifully captures the spirit of queer love and pride, adding another layer of intimacy to the track.

Watch the official video here:

Building on a Strong Solo Debut

Earlier this year, Romy treated fans with the Mid Air (Transcendence Remixes) EP, offering fresh takes on the songs from her debut album. But that’s not all—2023 was brimming with Romy’s collaborations and standalone singles, showing her versatility and growing presence in the music world.

Some of the highlights include collaborations with soulful artists like Sampha and Jessie Ware, which broadened her musical horizons and delighted fans across genres.

The xx and New Horizons

Romy’s journey is intertwined with her roots in The xx, the band that first brought her voice into the spotlight. Even as she carves out her solo path, her connection to the group remains strong. Last year, she reunited with Jamie xx and Oliver Sim—her bandmates—on Jamie’s single Waited All Night, a track they brought to life together on stage during the LIDO Festival. The chemistry was electric, a reminder of their unique shared sound.

Currently, The xx are cooking up new music, their first since the 2017 album I See You. Pictures from the studio surfaced earlier this year, stirring excitement among fans eager for their return. Jamie xx has even mentioned they’re “having a good time” crafting fresh material—a hopeful sign for all followers of their moody, atmospheric sound.

Rehearsal footage shared in September and announcements of festival gigs next year—including Coachella and Primavera Sound—further cement The xx’s upcoming comeback.

Why ‘Love Who You Love’ Matters Now

In a world where love still faces barriers, Romy’s Love Who You Love is a resounding anthem of affirmation. It captures the spirit of queer love with tenderness and strength, reminding us all that love’s power is ours to keep and celebrate. It’s a song that makes you want to dance, cry, and hold your chosen family a little tighter.

If you’ve ever felt isolated or unseen, this track is your anthem. If you’ve ever loved fiercely and proudly, Romy has put your feelings to music with grace and honesty.

“No one can take the love you feel away from you – it’s yours.”
— Romy

FAQ

• What inspired Romy to write ‘Love Who You Love’?
  Romy was inspired by her own experiences within the queer community, especially the resilience and togetherness found in queer clubbing scenes. She wanted to create a song celebrating love and calling for change.
• Is ‘Love Who You Love’ part of an album?
  Yes, it serves as the closing chapter of Romy’s 2023 debut solo album Mid Air.
• Who directed the music video for ‘Love Who You Love’?
  The video was directed by Vic Lentaigne, Romy’s creative and life partner.
• Has Romy collaborated with other artists recently?
  Absolutely. In 2023, she released singles featuring collaborations with Sampha and Jessie Ware, among others.
• What’s next for Romy and The xx?
  The xx are working on new music, with studio sessions and rehearsals underway. They're also set to perform at major festivals next year, including Coachella and Primavera Sound.

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